‘To my sister’ Yoo Su-jin “I thought it was a machine to give birth to children”… Fourth confession of miscarriage [종합]

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[이데일리 스타in 김보영 기자] ‘Rich sister’ Yoo Su-jin shared the pain of having to part with her child four times due to her habitual miscarriage.

On the evening of the 14th, the SBS Plus entertainment show’You Can Talk to My Sister’, amidst various distressed stories, introduced the story written by a 45-year-old woman in the third year of marriage entitled’Time Left for Me’.

The protagonist of concern was Sujin Yoo, an asset manager with an annual salary of 600 million, familiar with the modifiers’Wannabe of 2030 Women’ and’Rich Older Sister’.

Yoo Su-jin said in writing, “The only thing I don’t have is a child,” and said, “Before marrying my husband, I was pregnant like a gift, but I was aborted after 10 weeks. I imagine a family with a child and a husband dozens of times a day, but the reality is that there is only the pain of having to put an injection into the stomach and take hormone drugs every morning.”

He said, “I still had to endure it, but there is no time anymore. The time to have children is about a year or so, and what should I do with the remaining time?”

The ovaries are also getting older, so it is difficult to get pregnant. Lee Ji-hye said, “The first Tae-ri was pregnant, but the second had abortion.” “I tried the test tube, the first failed, and the second I could not even try, so I used up all the collected frozen eggs. The only thing is to wait indefinitely, and the end is decided, so it feels like a time limit.”

Comedian Kang Jae-jun, who came out as a special MC on this day, said, “My wife has been married for 4 years, dating only, 10 years, and 14 years in total.” “I met at 26 and now I am 40, I am worried that I can’t have it. ”He said. At the same time, “I haven’t tried a lot, I don’t have a lot of relationships.” When I said honestly, everyone said, “What are you talking about so far?” and Kang Jae-joon said, “I thought I wanted to know.”

Finally, Yoo Su-jin, an asset manager called the god of Jae Tak, appeared in the studio as the main character of the story. Yoo Su-jin said, “I didn’t like children, but my husband and in-laws wanted a child, so I thought that I should do my best to cooperate after marriage. But as I get older, I instinctively think that it would be nice to have a child. I am worried that I will be able to send them there.”

He said, “It was the first natural pregnancy, but the first child abortion, a mother of Lao-san, you should have been careful, but in the 8th week you should be most careful, a wedding ceremony, even heels, a period when I was too proud, and abortion after 2 weeks.” did.

Yoo Su-jin said, “I had a natural pregnancy twice, twice in the meantime, but also abortions and test tubes twice, a total of four miscarriages. It is not a body that can not be pregnant, but I cannot maintain it.” Delivering her infertility, she said, “I had the 4th miscarriage, so I thought I wanted to quit now.”

When asked about her husband’s opinion, she said, “The ovaries are getting older because I don’t exercise. I’m nagging that I don’t take good care of eating.” is it? I wanted to, thinking that I should listen to this criticism in order to give birth to a baby. My stomach is bruised and there is no place to inject any more.”

My husband said that if it is a race with a fixed period, I have to do my best. She felt sad that her priority was work. Lee Ji-hye said, “It is important to care for yourself like my best friend, workaholic Yoo Su-jin, and her husband said,” and Yu Su-jin said, “I am currently working hard after listening to my husband, reducing my work and starting treatment ballet.

Kim Won-hee also said, “It will be my husband’s heart in order not to collapse my wife. Even if the result is not good, I hope you will walk with my beloved wife.” Lee Ji-hye shouted, “I blame my husband for all because of my brother, how hard I am.” “As it is our problem, I hope you work together.”

When the MCs asked their husbands to say what they wanted to say, Yoo Su-jin said, “What would it be like to meet an ordinary woman, how would it have been to meet an ordinary person who is healthy and does not have a lot of work?” They all stole tears together with heartbreaking, “How can I do better than now?”

Yoo Su-jin said, “If my husband doesn’t have a child, he talks about how to live, but I don’t want to think about it after that, so I didn’t think specifically.” What I gained, I thought that my child would come after a bloody effort as always, but now I think I have to accept it to some extent, and I think I can get through the time now with a comfortable mind.”

The obstetrician who heard this said, “50% of habitual miscarriages do not know why, but there are many cases where children are born normally afterwards,” comforting them. “You are doing well now, but you should be careful about stress, which is a factor that hinders pregnancy. do. I hope that the waiting time for the child is not difficult, I do not have to be sorry to my husband, the annual salary is 600 million won a year, but a year is objective data, but I hope you do not get impatient and feel comfortable,” he advised with cool statistics.

Yoo Su-jin said, “I always gave a solution after hearing the story, but I was grateful that I could tell a story that I couldn’t say.