[스포츠서울 박효실기자] Actor Park Hye-soo, who spent two weeks like a storm over suspicion of school violence, made a direct statement after a long silence. “The lie gave birth to lies and piled up like a pile of lies, and it only got higher and higher,” he confessed to his despair and said, “Even if it takes a long time, I will surely reveal the truth.”
Park Hye-soo posted a long article on his social media site late on the 7th without any photos. It was a story about the school he went through when he was 16 adolescents.
He said, “I wrote and erased the text many times and repeated it countless times. While I was watching and believing that it would pass because it wasn’t true, the lie bit the tail on the lie, gave birth to new lie, and piled up like a heap of lie and grew higher and higher. One or two of the photos gained strength as’authentication’, and it was painful to see the process of creating prejudices that are difficult to erase by fake disclosures.
“I know that a lot of people have been waiting for me to come and talk. But the reason I couldn’t come for a long time is because I knew that my words would be powerless amidst my uncontrollable prejudice.” “I’ve already experienced one time in the past that rumors have spread and they are imprinted by people as if they are true. That’s why I know how difficult it is to get the countless lies that come out of people’s mouths back into place one by one.” did.
The fact that the false rumors he said was imprinted as if it were true happened when he transferred to a middle school in Gangnam at the age of 16. Park Hye-soo said, “In 2008, when I was in my second year of middle school, I went to the US to study as an exchange student, and then I came back to Korea the following year. When I returned to Korea, I left my hometown and transferred to an unfamiliar school in July 2009. I returned to school in grade. I started my school life in an unfamiliar place where no one else was, and the scary things that I experienced for the first time began to happen.” I remembered the past.
It was as if Cha Eun-sang would have suffered in the drama’Heirs’. He said, “I transferred from Gangbuk, and I was one year older than my classmates, and rumors about me began to spread rapidly because of the’fact’ that I had been studying abroad in the United States. Rumors started to follow me as if it were true, saying, “I have never been to the United States, and I was paid for because I was not doing well in the whole town.” My number, which I only gave to two or three people, was scattered here and there every morning. When I opened my eyes, I received text messages containing severe swear words and sexual harassment. As soon as I opened my eyes in the morning, I checked my cell phone with my thumping chest and I remember the times when I cried silently without my parents secretly.”
Whether it was a simple envy toward a strange transfer student or just a mean joke, it was a time of fear for Park Hye-soo, who was the victim. He said, “As a very ordinary student in my previous school, I was loved by my friends and teachers and filled with only good memories. Those times were unbearably harsh. About a week before I went to the United States, even though it was not the day I was not going to school, all my homeroom teachers and classmates were all. I was happy to have a surprise farewell party together, and I was so distressed that I did not know why I should be treated like this or who to blame after taking pictures with friends and blowing cake candles.”
However, the harassment towards Park Hye-soo got worse. He said, “There were things like going over the plate while eating and getting all the food in the school uniform, hitting it while passing the corridor, and spitting swear words on the back. He confessed, “I want to hit you” and “I would have hit you even if I was in the third grade.”
“However, the reason I was able to endure in such a situation is that there were still some warm friends who reached out to me. However, because of the wounds that have not healed, I received counseling at the counseling center for three years.”
Park Hye-soo said to Mr. A, who is constantly raising suspicions of school violence against him. “When I first transferred to school, I overturned my plate, and when I passed by, the person who spoke swear words is the current victim.” Even while we were together, even this year when there was no traffic, it has been thought that what we shared was friendship in our childhood. “It really hurts when I think about why it had to be like this.”
He said, “The kid’s friends ran into my Instagram account in a group and sowed the seeds of all these lies by posting falsely spotted comments. Anonymous stories circulating on the Internet were also captured on Instagram account,” he said. All the stories of unknown identity and source are going around the Internet as if they were true.”
He said, “I want to ask this kid who tries to ruin me by falsely agitating me with an unreliable story that changes from time to time, from Instagram comments to two interviews. I want to ask why the hell should I do that and what I get through this. There are dozens of victims. The meeting room also appears to be an insubstantial existence as in the stories above, and reports are coming from the inside of the room as well. For this, I will move without further waiting or compromise.”
He also recalled the memories of the bullying he had experienced in his sixteen days, and expressed his willingness to respond head-on to those who still harass him in the same way.
“While watching this event, I encountered myself as a young child who had been hurt by rumors and harassment, which I had hidden deep in my heart. If I didn’t choose a profession like this, I would appeal to someone about my horrible memories that are hard to recall. He said, “I hope you will remember that the false disclosure and the resulting reckless slander can also be the same violence against someone.”
In addition, he bowed his head to the actors and related actors such as KBS2’Dear M’, which had been delayed due to unexpected controversy. He ended a long post saying, “Even if it takes a long time, I will reveal it slowly, one by one, and eventually all of this will pass. Please continue to look at the facts as they are.”
On the 4th, Park Hye-soo’s management agency previously filed a complaint against the major people who posted false facts, and is currently under investigation. In addition, various evidences, including those reported in the media, have been submitted to the investigative agency and secured. Additional evidence that is being made will also be submitted to the investigative agency. In order to justify the false disclosure, we will expand the scope of the complaint against others who are claiming false information again.”
The following is the full text of Park Hye-soo
It took a really long time to post this post. I’m sorry it took so long to talk like this. I wrote, erased, and repeated countless times. While watching and believing that it would pass because it was not true, the lie bit the tail of the lie, gave birth to new lie, and piled up like a pile of lie and grew higher and higher. It was painful to see a photo or two unrelated to the facts gaining strength as’certification’, and the process of fake disclosures creating prejudices that are difficult to erase.
I knew that many people had been waiting for me to come and talk. Still, the reason I couldn’t come out for a long time was because I knew that my words would be powerless in the midst of my prejudices that grew out of control. Despite the fact that many evidences were exposed to add strength to the words, I saw that the facts were not taken as the truth, so I wrote this.
I’ve already experienced once in the past that false rumors spread and they were imprinted on people as if they were true. That is why we know how difficult it is to put the countless lies that have come out of people’s mouths one by one.
In 2008, when I was in my second year of middle school, I left for the US to study as an exchange student, and then returned to Korea the following year. When I returned to Korea, I left my hometown and transferred to school, and in July 2009, I returned to the second year of middle school at an unfamiliar school. When I started school in an unfamiliar place where no one knows, the scary things that I experienced for the first time began to happen.
I transferred from Gangbuk, and I was one year older than my classmates, and rumors about me began to spread quickly because of the’fact’ that I had been studying abroad in the United States. Rumors of’he went to the US to have an abortion’ and’that he had never been to the US and that he was paid for poor behavior in the whole town’ began to follow me as if it were true. My number, which I had given to only two or three people, was scattered everywhere, and every morning when I woke up, I received text messages containing severe abusive language and sexual harassment. As soon as I open my eyes in the morning, I remember the times when I checked my cell phone with my thumping heart and cried silently without my parents’ knowledge.
For me, as a very ordinary student in my previous school, loved by my friends and teachers and filled with only good memories, those times were unbearably harsh. About a week before going to the US, I was happy that my homeroom teacher and classmates all gathered and held a surprise farewell party even though it wasn’t the day I went to school. It was very painful not knowing if I should blame it. It was really hard because of the bullying for which the reason was unknown, but I couldn’t tell my parents who forced me to move for my education, so I couldn’t tell anyone and I was sick alone.
The bullying got worse. There were things like going over the plate while eating and getting all the food in the school uniform, hitting it while passing the corridor, and spitting abusive language behind your back. I was called into the corridor of the 3rd grade because it was’just annoying’, and I hit my head in front of many students and heard the words’I want to hit you’ and’I would have hit you even if I was in the 3rd grade’.
However, the reason I was able to endure in such a situation was nonetheless because I had a few warm friends who reached out. Instead of rumors or prejudices about me, I have been able to improve my school life more and more thanks to my friends who look and like me as I am. However, due to the still unhealed wounds, I received counseling at the counseling center for 3 years. By receiving regular consultations, I was able to clear a lot of my wounds. Starting with fake rumors, I was hated, harassed, and resentful towards others, and eventually I was able to soothe my feelings of hating and hating myself.
When I first transferred to school, I overturned my table, and when I passed by, the person who spoke swear words is the person who claims to be the current victim. After that, I got closer to the third grade. Even while we were together, even this year when there was no traffic, what we shared was the friendship of our childhood. As long as the situation has gone so far, it will be inevitable that the moments legally cover all the criticisms, but it really hurts when I think about why the relationship I used to be friends with had to be like this.
The child’s friends ran into my Instagram account in a crowd, posted falsely littered comments, and sowed the seeds of all these lies. Anonymous stories circulating on the Internet are also captured on Instagram account. Stories of unknown identity or origin are all circulating on the Internet as if they were true.
From Instagram comments to two interviews, I would like to ask this child why the hell should he do that and what he gains from it, who wants to spoil me by falsely agitating me with an unreliable story that changes from moment to moment. With all of these actions I’m hoping to break down and break, I won’t be shaken, and even if it takes months, I will surely find out.
The victims’ meeting room, where there were dozens of people, also appears to be insubstantial like the stories above, and reports are coming from inside the room about the number of people in it. At the moment, it feels meaningless to talk about all the fake gossip things that are floating around and make a statement, so I will move on without further waiting or compromise.
As I watched this, I encountered myself as a young child who had been hurt by rumors and harassment, which I had hidden deep in my heart. If I hadn’t chosen a job that reveals this, I might have wanted to appeal to someone about my terrible memories that are hard to recall. However, I would like you to remember that false disclosure and the resulting reckless slander can also be the same violence against someone. There have been specific reports on the past mistakes of those who claim to be victims, but I don’t want to publicize the content because I think it is the same violence.
KBS and DM officials, actors, and all staff who have been affected by the controversy about me…. I am very sorry to all of you.
I am so grateful to the many people who support and support me even while I haven’t been able to say anything for a few days. Thanks to this, I was able to get up in the midst of suffering, see the situation clearly, and prepare step by step. Even if it takes a long time, slowly, we uncover one by one, and we believe that in the end all of this will pass. I sincerely hope that you will continue to look at the facts as they are. The article was really long. Thank you for reading.
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