The mortality rate of couples who did not quarrel more than one couple 4Times higher
Last 23Days broadcast TV CHOSUN”Nowhere in the world, Wife’s taste‘(Wife’s taste)Esau Ham So-won⦁The evolutionary couple reconciled after a fierce couple fight was broadcast..
On this day, after a quarrel with Sowon Ham, Evolution left the house and came in a few days and heard worries from his mother.. Mother “Never divorce. . How sad a parent’s divorce is for a child”And persuaded my son with tears, Evolution is “It won’t happen”Soothed my mother, saying.
Afterwards, an awkward current flowed between Sowon Ham and Jinhwa, who returned home from work.. The two people, who went out under the pressure of their mother, sat face to face at the restaurant and had an honest conversation..
“If you’re angry, you can get angry. It’s scary not to speak. I really can’t stand it. I’m so frustrated”(Sowon Ham)
“What’s the use of conversation. One more out of the fight. Don’t you just say things that hurt each other”(Evolution) “Did you ever want to divorce me even a little?”(Sowon Ham)
“I’ll just say this. I have never regretted marrying you until now.”(Evolution)
“We have changed a lot. Different from before. Do we have Hyejeong?. In the past, I only thought of you, but now 70%Hyejeong, 30%Is you”(Sowon Ham)
“I will try to fix my problem. Let’s try each other”(Evolution)
The couple’s fight ended in reconciliation.. Sowon Ham⦁While watching the evolutionary couple’s conflict and reconciliation process, many people think that having a couple fight is better than turning away from each other.. I’m not interested in not having a fight, There is nothing to understand or understand.
Novel coronavirus infection(corona19) After the crisis, financial difficulties abroad, Marital conflict has increased significantly due to home, etc., As divorce increases ‘Covidivos‘(Covidivorce), In other words ‘Corona divorce‘Even the new word “” has appeared..
As the couples stayed at home more, the births were expected to increase, but as a result, the number of births drastically decreased.. Some view the relationship between the couple as the cause..
Some people regret getting married because there are more quarrels than joyful things in marriage., In terms of mental health, doubles are better than singles. Compared to married couples, people living alone are at risk of dementia. 1.4ship, Bereaved(死別者)Is 1.2There is also a British study showing that it is twice as high..
‘Parakeet couple‘Is ‘忍Squirt‘There is a saying. A couple who live without a fight sometimes buy envy,, It is not a good idea to endure marital quarrels.. Of course, if you fight so desperately to reveal each other’s bottom, it will fall to the extent that there is no, You can get to know the other person’s feelings because the inner feelings are revealed through the words that are poured out without adjustment..
University of Michigan research team in the United States 160Pair 40Observations over the years, The mortality rate of married couples who did not fight couples often had more mortality than couples who quarreled. 4Turned out to be twice as high. When there is a conflict, do not put up with it or turn it away, resolve it and reconcile, and the marital relationship has a new opportunity..
<Malcolm and Marie(Malcolm&Marie)>There is a movie called. Last 2This is an original Netflix movie released on January.. There are conflicting opinions about the movie because the two are filmmakers and aspiring actors., Arguments are made in all cases.. Running time 105For a minute 90Boon you did it wrong, Aggressive lines saying that I did a good job continues..
‘Who wins‘ It’s not a kind of argument, but it’s in-depth and intense talk, Persuade, Seeing two people trying to understand them, it feels like they are being taught the techniques of marital quarrels.. The movie ends with the back of a reconciling lover seen far away..
Two people who have lived in different worlds are bound to collide.. In some ways, it is natural for a couple to fight.. The important thing is to fight well.
Dr. John Gartman, a world-renowned family therapy expert(Dr.John Gottman)Is 47Year 3000As a result of analyzing marital relationships with more than one pair, The biggest cause of divorce is ‘Conversation‘Said. According to Dr. Gatman, the pattern of conversation that is an indicator of divorce is criticized., defense, contempt, Consist of a wall.
Couples who talk in this pattern are very likely to get divorced.. Conversely, the more we try to get out of this pattern, the closer we get to solving the problem.. Dr. Gatman asks instead of blame, Instead of a defense that justifies one’s actions, he admits it as it is, Instead of contempt, they praise the other person for their trivial behavior, When emotions reach extremes, it is recommended to take a break and take control..
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