[서울En] Bae Sung-jin, daughter of Bae Sung, “Divorce after two years… If you want a son, you can travel with your ex-husband.”

Comedian Bae Sung’s daughter YouTuber Bae Soo-jin shared her agony and worries as a single mother raising a son alone after divorce.

On the 2nd broadcast of SBS Plus’You Can Tell My Sister,’ Bae Bae Jin appeared as a client with a concern that’I don’t want to pass on the pain of a divorced family.’

Bae Bae-jin said, “I am a 26-year-old woman with a four-year-old son. As I watched my parents’ divorce, I was very hurt and decided to marry at the young age of 23 with the mind that’I should never divorce, I should not hurt my children’. But my marriage broke after two years.”

“I wanted to avoid divorce,” said Bae Jin, who felt a lot of loneliness while living alone with his divorced father. It was two years short, but I endured day by day.” “I decided to divorce because of my child. I thought that a comfortable family would be better than a discord,” he confessed.

Bae Bae-jin said, “Because my son couldn’t go to the daycare center due to the Corona 19 incident, I raise my child for 24 hours. As a son, it is difficult to play with the body. Before the divorce, my husband played around and endured. The baby was pretty.” “My ex-husband sees it once a month, and I’ve been meeting a lot these days. When asked to go to the daycare center, he said,’I don’t like it, Dad.’” “No matter what I do at home, only my mother follows. Follow up to the kitchen and read a book. They say’Mom is here, sit down’. Because of the corona, they are only at home, so they feel lonely. I play with puzzles alone. I am sorry to be alone because I have no brothers.”

When asked, “Is seeing a divorced father often a desirable way for a child?” Specialist Yu Eun-jung said, “If you meet too often, your interest can be distracted from one side. Advised.

On this day, Bae Ji-jin said, “If my son wants, I can go on a trip with my ex-husband for 3 days and 2 nights.” When asked,’Isn’t it difficult if my ex-husband has a lover?’ “If my ex-husband’s girlfriend allows it, it’s okay. You can go together.”

The expert said, “It is better not to disclose parents’ opposite sex friends as the child is younger. It is parent-centered thinking to disclose opposite sex friends. From a child’s point of view, there will be someone who takes away the love of their parents.”

In addition, Bae Bae-jin said, “I am scared that I would say’I hate my mom, I want to live with my dad’ while raising my child carefully. “I am worried about what to do during puberty.”

Experts say, “parenting is about raising a child well in a better environment. When the court decides on a custody, if the child is over 13 years old, the child’s will is questioned, but a number of criteria are comprehensively judged. Throw away the idea that you are not doing everything to your child. There are many people who cannot play the role of dad even if they raise it together.”

Reporter Lee Bo-hee [email protected]